Etiquette Tips to Keep in Mind for Funerals, Cremations and Memorials
If you’re planning to attend a funeral, memorial or cremation service in Botkins, OH to support a friend whose relative has died, you’ll want to provide moral support. But there are things to be mindful of as it relates to etiquette at events to honor the deceased. Here are some tips.
Dress Appropriately
Telling people what they should and should not wear is always a touchy subject since people tend to get sensitive about dos and don’ts in this area. But it goes without saying that there are certain things that would be inappropriate to wear. One of the things to remember is that the focus of the service should be, firstly, on the deceased and, secondly, on the grieving family. The time to get all dressed up and glammed up is for your birthday party, wedding day celebration or some other event where all eyes are expected to be on you. You’ll have to dial it back a bit when you’re at a funeral, memorial or cremation service. If you’re wondering about what would be deemed as appropriate, consider if it would be okay to wear it to a job interview. If it is, then it’s likely safe to wear to the service. As for specific tips, don’t wear anything too tight or revealing. You don’t want to detract and to disrespect the grieving family or the deceased.
Arrive Promptly
When it comes to attending a service, you want to get there on time so that you don’t cause a disturbance. If you get there late despite your best efforts, then find a seat near to the back. This will minimize any distractions associated with your late arrival.
Watch Where You Sit
It’s usually the case that the first few rows at the front are reserved for the family of the deceased. So unless you fit into that category, be mindful about where you sit down. You don’t want to arrive early, sit near the front and then have to move after finding out that you’re sitting in an area designated to the family of the deceased. If in doubt, ask.
Turn Off Phone
You should either turn off your phone or switch it to vibrate. Nothing shows disrespect more than a phone ringing during, say, the eulogy. Of course, these things can happen by accident. It might make sense to turn off the ringer even before leaving home to head down to the event. It’ll save you possible embarrassment.
When planning to attend a Botkins, OH cremation service, funeral service or memorial service, it pays to understand a thing or two about etiquette. It will ensure that you can show your respects without unintentionally showing the deceased or the grieving family any disrespect. Get in touch with us at Eley Funeral Home & Crematory when you want to plan final services for your deceased loved one. Located at 1102 Lincoln Ave, Wapakoneta, OH 45895, we’re committed to helping grieving families to plan the perfect final send-off for those they love. Call us at (419) 738-7676 when you want to discuss your options.
